i figured I'd comment so your post wouldn't be so lonely :)

just to let you know I don't consider that man as my father he has cut off relations with me and my brothers and only forces my younger brother to go up to his house because if he didn't he would have to pay twice as much in child support......please don't disrespect me and tell me I am going against the bible.......the man isn't my father.....my father would have more respect for himself and others.

i hate to chime in on the conversationthat you are having with my brother about me...but...it it about me and i am all about giving my opion on these kind of things 1 when you go behind someones back and tell them one thing and then go somewhere else and tell them that if they do that then to evict them without notice. then that's just low down and dirty.
i'm guessing that you want to know the story well my dad owns the house that we are renting and he turned it over to a management place to run it so that he wouldn't have to mess with it before we moved in i asked him if we could have cats there and he said that was fine.then he went behind my back and told the management place that if we had cat's (inside or out ) TO evict us without notice. i'm sorry but having your 5 month old grandson evicted out of a house is low, dirty and NOT CHRISTIAN,
2 the word honor can be be taken 2 ways the first is to obey them at all costs. the second is to show honor to them by not doing anything that would tarnish there name, such as theft murder, and most of the other sins, because i have found out through expereance that when your son or daughter missbehaves or is just outright mean, then it looks bad on the parents and hence disshoners them. and if it was the first then if you became a christian and your father was not and he told you not to go to church, then it would be a sin to go to church because you would not be honoring your father's wishes
3 your talking about the bible, what about the verse where it says "a father would not feed his son a snake and tell him it's bread..."

maybe stephen should not have cussed in his post, but does that change any of the facts?

Mike has it right......and also you are right I shouldn't have cussed in my post but I was frustrated and it didn't matter at the moment.....although I see it does now......but I am honoring my Father but not condoning sin.......I don't have to honor the attributes of my earthly father when he himself goes against the bible......I am sorry you feel the way you do but you have only seen the side of my father at church.......he is a hypocrite in my mind.......professing Christ's love in church and to his christian friends and disowning his own family.......something I forgot to mention.....do I still have to honor a father who will have nothing to do with me.......it is the same thing as having a father who has left without any knowledge or consent.....now my intent with this isn't to have you hate my father that isn't the point.....I wrote on my xanga because I needed to vent and from what I knew no one had been reading my xanga in some time........now I am sorry if I have done anything beyond what I have been taught and what I have gleened from the bible and my readings.........but remember the bible does say "work out your own salvation with fear and trembling"  I have don't that and from my understanding I have done nothing wrong......I will see you around much love bye bye

he disowned me before I ever did anything of the sort I believe when he starts attacking my family that has actually acted like family then I have the absolute right and duty to let him know he is in the wrong and that he needs to get it right and that is all I did and he has yet to call or talk to me or my younger brother in 2 weeks and the only reason he talks to my older brother is because he works with him........this is already done and I didn't do it......it was the man you are claiming is my dad.......which he might be genetically but not spiritually or emotionally.......that is all I have on that one